Editing the source code for vB is never a good idea. Doing that means you have to edit the code every time you upgrade.
Try this...
Go to ACP->Plugins & Products->Plugin Manager. Scroll down to the bottom and click 'Add New Plugin'.
On the page that follows enter this info...
Product: vBulletin
Hook Location: login_strikes
Title: Admin Failed Login Email
Execution Order: 5
Code...
Code:
if ($strikes_user['strikes'] >= 5 && $message)
{
vbmail('yourname@youremail.com', $subject, $message, true);
}