So do you have access to tweak your server? If so, you may want to post in the Server Configuration forum on vb.com and get George's advice.
More advice - get firebug and see what is going on (look at the Net tab and then reload the page and you will see). For instance, on your taste tested site, it sits there spinning and spinning long after the page is rendered. It's because it is trying to get this image -
http://www.englishbulldognews.com/fo...dog_Square.png You can also just see that everything on your englishbulldognews takes forever to load. Honestly, it's ridiculous how long it is taking to load the images. I wish the host support could look at that. There is definitely something going on.