I went to your site. They look to be working, BUT it's not streaming. It is downloading the hole video then playing. (no buffering) Why that is happening I don't know, . When I go there, as soon as the page is up it's down loading #2 video on the page. It's set to auto start. Clear the cash in the ACP.
I would guess by now you have started to see how the code works with the values in it. If you play with the values and how things have or where the "spaces" are, or <> tags it will change things. It took me about 4 days to convert it from PhPbb3 to the VBulletin format. I wish I could be of more help but you will get it working the way you want. Just make one change at a time to the code.
To control the auto start look in the code for autostart = make sure they are set to False. Fire Fox is a problem. Ever since they sued Microsoft over the video player they have had problems. MS stopped all support to them.
You also said there is a space when you click the button on the vid. Yes it is a problem. VBulletin is causing that. I have not found a work around for it.
It has somthing to do with this line. <param name="FileName" value= {param} ref> But this was the olnly way I could get it to work on my board.
You will also need to allow for the attachment extensions in your ACP. In the Attachment manager.
Here is my code the way it is in my board.
PHP Code:
<object id="MediaPlayer1" width=300height=230
classid="CLSID:22D6F312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95"
codebase="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701"
standby="Loading Microsoft? Windows? Media Player components..."
type="application/x-oleobject" align="middle">
<param name="FileName" value= {param} ref>
<param name="AutoStart" value="False">
<param name="ShowStatusBar" value="True">
<param name="DefaultFrame" value="mainFrame">
<!-- BEGIN PLUG-IN HTML FOR FIREFOX-->
<embed type="application/x-mplayer2"
pluginspage = "http://www.microsoft.com/Windows/MediaPlayer/"
src= {param} align="middle"
width=300
height=230
autostart" value="False"
defaultframe="rightFrame"
showstatusbar=true>
</embed>
<!-- END PLUG-IN HTML FOR FIREFOX-->
</object>
<!-- END GENERIC ALL BROWSER FRIENDLY HTML FOR WINDOWS MEDIA PLAYER -->
<br>
<a href= {param} >Download? Right Clk, Then Save Target As</a>