This thread is straying all over the place for no really good reason. The OP's point ("i posted a thread a week ago. i posted another thread almost 2 days ago, replied to 10 or more and couldn't even get a single reply to any questions or inquiries in any of my posts.") is often asked in different ways, but the answers are usually the same:
- I didn't respond because I didn't know the answer.
- RTFM.
- I've seen that question asked and answered so many times I'm sick of seeing it; learn to search before you ask.
All the philosophy about plugins and forums and past members won't change those answers. And these days most of us won't dare to use answers 2 or 3 for fear our response will be misinterpreted as hostile.