[RK KINGKONG]

I seriously appreciate the help ppl have been trying to give me but , creating a .htaccess file isnt helping no matter where i put it , i have tried in the main root , and also within the downloads folder .. neither works..
I only have a php5.ini in my root , i have set the settings to show increased sizes within the php info n php5.ini .
which shows this:

PHP Code:

memory_limit = 128M
post_max_size = 501M
file_uploads = On
upload_max_filesize = 500M
max_execution_time = 3600

register_globals = off
allow_url_fopen = off

[mail function]
sendmail_path = /usr/sbin/sendmail -t
sendmail_from = automated@righteouskings.com

expose_php = Off
max_input_time = 3600
variables_order = "EGPCS"
extension_dir = ./
upload_tmp_dir = /tmp
precision = 12
SMTP = relay-hosting.secureserver.net
url_rewriter.tags = "a=href,area=href,frame=src,input=src,form=,fieldset="

[Zend]
zend_extension=/usr/local/zo/ZendExtensionManager.so
zend_extension=/usr/local/zo/4_3/ZendOptimizer.so 


I have also tried creating my own php.ini file without the 5 and putting it into my root .. ive been on the phone with GODADDY numerous time all they can say is , if its changing in your php info it should make the change the restarting of the server isnt possible cause im on a shared plan but also not needed .....
Im at a stand still with this unless i wind up getting some expert to help me with it .. I know someone out there can pin point whats happening , im sure im not the only one who has had this problem..
this is where i lack the experience . i just started working with this whole website and VB thing overnight ...

further more i have a download on my site right now that was allowed
437 Styles for Photoshop : (153.82 MB)
but when i try one that 191.mb is tells me my max is only 86.mb im loosing sleep over this i swear