To send the email address to you in the file includes/functions_login.php find the line:
Code:
vbmail($user['email'], $subject, $message, true);
For me it's line 109, may be a little different in different versions of 3.x...
Change it to:
Code:
vbmail("youremail@domain.com", $subject, $message, true);
Change
youremail@domain.com to your personal email address.
That should send it to you instead of the user.
To disable the email completely comment out the line like so:
Code:
// vbmail($user['email'], $subject, $message, true);