Yes I did enable it. Not sure why it won't give me that button without me adding it myself and even then it don't work.
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Figured it out.
For those who want to know, if you are missing your Facebook connect at the top then you can use this code in your header template.
HTML Code:
<vb:if condition="$vboptions['enablefacebookconnect']">
{vb:raw facebook_header}
</vb:if>