got on the computer I saw it from & checked the history. it looks like it was called AVChat 3. the thread on vb.org has been deleted so it's hard to tell. i should have looked at my cached page but stupidly clicked thru. now my cached page is the no permission page.
now I just wish I knew why. like was the company a rippoff or something? anyway, I guess I'll research it. thanks for the help