try the following to make sure this is not the mod ..............
upload the swfplayer and swfobject i have attached to your forum root
try this code within a widget or you can use it in a bb code replacement obviously
HTML Code:
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.pathtoyourforums/swfobject.js"></script> <div id="player">This text will be replaced</div> <script type="text/javascript">var so = new SWFObject('http://www.pathtoyourforums/player.swf','mpl','640','480','9');so.addParam('allowscriptaccess','always');so.addParam('allowfullscreen','true');so.addParam('flashvars','&file=http://www.pathtoyourforums/your.flv');so.write('player');</script>
the sizes can be adjusted via the "640" and "480" but this is your choice.
A logo can be added with a line of code behind but try this first
You can see it in action on the board in this post ..........
HERE