you changed the red paths to suit your swf file ? yes
That will place the swf on the forumhome page. you can change the position via the green code
<!-- mail -->
<vb:if condition="$bbuserinfo[pmunread]">
<a style="display:scroll;position:fixed;bottom:
-40px;right:-20px; " title="Click Here - new message!">
<object type="application/x-shockwave-flash"
data="
/path-to-your/you-got-mail.swf"
width="150" height="250">
<param name="movie" value="
/path-to-your/you-got-mail.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high"/>
<param name="wmode" value="transparent"/>
</object>
</vb:if>
<!-- end of mail -->
if the url linking from the swf needs changing you can do it via the fla attatched or pm me ill change it for you
it is currently set assuming your board is
www.yoursite.com/forum/private.php