[final kaoss]

K im using gmail as described here, should this be on or off? (in before the "what host are you using") I'm at x10hosting.com free plans.

Enable '-f' Parameter
Some sendmail servers may require the '-f' parameter to be sent with email calls from PHP. If you are having problems with users not receiving email, try enabling this option. In all likelihood, your problem will not be caused by this setting.

This setting does not work when PHP SAFE MODE is enabled.

I just recently changed my email settings as described in this thread, will the system still go crazy and try to say the mail is being sent from x10 this way?

I've noticed that what's doing it is.. everytime the mysql server goes down, vb sends me an email wanting to tell me about it, and for every person who visits, it spits out another email

--------------- Added [DATE]1265777996[/DATE] at [TIME]1265777996[/TIME] ---------------

OK, just ran a test and it sends all email fine EXCEPT these

Database error in vBulletin :

mysql_pconnect() [<a href='function.mysql-pconnect'>function.mysql-pconnect</a>]: #07000(proxy) all backends are down
/home/---------/public_html/forum/includes/class_core.php on line 311

MySQL Error :
Error Number :
Request Date : Tuesday, February 9th 2010 @ 11:45:13 PM
Error Date : Tuesday, February 9th 2010 @ 11:45:13 PM
Script : http://vgchat.info/forum/
Referrer : http://vgchat.info/******************
IP Address : *************
Username :
Classname : vB_Database
MySQL Version :

Is it sending this error message from a different account because the db is down? How to fix this?