So, after a bit of time reading a bunch of stuff in this thread (coupled with your HOW TO on adding pages) I've got this all figured out.
For the people that seem to be trying to grasp exactly what to do, it's probably best to follow this thread
https://vborg.vbsupport.ru/showthread.php?t=228112 in order to create the link.php (or whatever you want to name it). Then everything else will make a lot more sense I think. Because then you'll actually have a webpage, that when you click on Nav Link, you'll be directed to and you'll be able to see the sublink and dropdown menus. After I did that up and read through the thread again it made a bit more sense. I hope that helps some people.
Lynne, you are great! Thanks again.
Because this is plugin form there won't be any problems when we update vB, right?