I agree that this kind of a mod is absolutely necessary, 100%.
The problem is that while it's necessary, developers don't have time to just throw out there on unpaid mods. It's not like we grow on trees (and I include myself very loosely in that category). It takes time to build something like this and get it working, which, to a developer = money .
After I'm done with my current project, I will
look at this (don't get your hopes up, because I really can't afford to spend time on major plugins like this) and see if I can do something better than the other two, but I'm in the middle of something right now, and I have a very, very bad case of procrastinate-itis
Edit:
Oh, and thanks for the comment on the site via PM, Peggy, I spend a LOT of time trying to get that stuff together as you can imagine, and comments like that are exactly what I do it for