There is an article in the articles forums on how to make a collapsible box. Also, your second box is collapsible, so you have the code right there. This is for your Status Feed:
HTML Code:
<tr>
<td class="tcat"><a style="float:right" href="#top" onclick="return toggle_collapse('statusfeed')"><img id="collapseimg_statusfeed" src="http://manlystuff.com/forum//images/raven/buttons/collapse_thead_collapsed.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>
Status Feed<!--BEGIN VB STATUS-->
</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>
This is for your Connect:
HTML Code:
<tr>
<td style="margin:0px;" class="tcat">
<a style="float:right" href="#top" onclick="return toggle_collapse('connect')"><img id="collapseimg_connect" src="http://manlystuff.com/forum//images/raven/buttons/collapse_thead.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>
Connect</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td height="156px" class="alt1" id="collapseobj_connect" style="">
Notice the second row td tag has an id that relates to the collapsible box id.