Thank you so much Testbot, these is my server data to this minute. See attachment.
I will take a look at what you told me (ill tell my webmaster), and lest see what happens, only thing I can think off are a couple of plugins Id install (mood faces and Album on the navbar) but I took them out, oh and the vbseo that I have had for about a week now, other than that nothing new or different that I know off, the last couple of days about 300-350 people inside.
Oh man, I hope I don't have to go dedicated again, it was a pain to me and besides $$$$