ok i get the options for selecting country, but it is blank! nothing to choose! i think below is what i dont understand, if possible pls explain.

this is from the readme:

*** The 'modifyprofile_country' template needs to be changed
to a default original templatesetid of -1 (changed templates
have the templatesetid set to 2) or else the Admin CP addon
will not show the country select list (Any ideas why?). To do
this, use phpMyAdmin and run this query:
UPDATE template SET templatesetid="-1" where title="modifyprofile_country"
This will move the template from the custom to default templates
and will be found in the 'User Option Templates' group.

hope to hear from u soon.