Hi there father guido/killaduce,
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Originally Posted by father guido
This is not an accurate way to judge experience - number of posts mean absolutely nothing. I recently can to VB after years of experience in coding with both the SMF and Joomla products. There is no way to judge that by simply looking at a post count.
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To me the number of posts and the profile are both indicators - they are better than _nothing_ and.. that's why I said - quick glance, _before_ going into details.
If two people reply and one has well over 1,500 posts and the other just a couple - I will probably want to know more details or read more threads on the guy who posted more - at least to have an idea of what else/how he handled other situations.
Certainly I wouldn't jump.. : ) I like walking.. and if I was to jump - I would keep the courtesy level high.
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Perhaps the OP's native language isn't English - just means we can all be more careful in our phrasing. "You're doing it wrong" is most like offensive in any language. There are just better ways to say things; that was my original point.
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Totally agree.
And then... again : ) I give the benefit of the doubt to the other person that he is not a mean character - maybe he just wanted to make a joke out of it or sound funny.. No idea. You also can't tell the age of either and that is another factor.
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I say Bravo but when it became obvious that the OP WAS embarrassed perhaps a simple "sorry, I didn't mean it in that way" could have neutralized the situation instead of "Whats wrong if someone manage something easier then u did? "
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Indeed - BUT - : ) I am not sure you noticed.. FRDS replied only once. The 'Whats wrong..' answer came from another forum member.. : )
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Again, it's just a matter of delivery and courtesy - treating others as we would like to be treated.
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Who knows - maybe he likes to be told he's wrong directly - I have no issue with that. Sometimes I find too much comforting is not always the best approach. Yes, it makes things more positive but the results can take longer to be achieved.. and in the end it's a nice poof..
I've read and came across quite a few situations where different cultures or background collide and - all I can say is - tact is gold.
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Now, back on topic : )
killaduce - will you at least evaluate/consider doing the change or taking the approach FRDS suggested? I don't know - maybe as an alternate solution? I think it's a better way and would save other people's time to have one template edit instead of two.
[ok - I ran out of cents again here.. piggy bank.. here I come!]
Cheers,
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