thanks s.molinari for this great hack ..it works like a charm for me ... I have only one problem
let say I have these users
josh
josh1
and I want to send the message to josh ....it will send it to josh1 first then it will ask me to continue
that means all the other users will get the message which I dont wont to ...
now is there is a way of giving a choice not to send the message to the other users except the one I want
I hope you got what I mean