OK, here's the default:
PHP Code:
$stylevar[dirmark]<a href="member.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$loggedin[userid]">$loggedin[musername]</a>$loggedin[invisiblemark]$loggedin[buddymark]
So, perhaps try:
PHP Code:
$stylevar[dirmark]<a href="member.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$loggedin[userid]">$loggedin[musername]</a>$loggedin[invisiblemark]<if condition="$loggedin[buddymark]=='+'"><img src="path/to/image/folder/yourimage.jpg" width="xx" height="yy" alt="Buddy" border="0"></if>
I haven't tested that, but I think it should work.