just to clarify....and not to repeat my problem. I uninstalled and then reinstalled vbExperience. It seems to be working fine...you can see that...
www.weusecoupons.com/upload but i still do NOT have the vbexperience in my admincp. I've looked through this thread and can not seem to find a similar problem. I'll give a screen shot later...just to show .... thanks for the help!