[Delw]

Originally Posted by PennylessZ28

You'd be amazed how much damage one stupid 20 year old girl can do to a forum of a bunch of guys. I run a local car site. Small community, everyone knows each other off the forum. The forum is mostly day time entertainment for a lot of guys at work.

One of my moderators starts dating a girl, and I'm happy for him. He's a friend who doesn't seem to have luck in that area.

A few months later, him and her aren't really in a relationship yet. And she's now using the shout box for attention regularly. Then she's flirting with different members. She's pretty attractive to a point, minus her two kids (yes at 20). Then some drama starts to crop up.

I want to can this dumb girl, becuase I've had this happen before. But my one moderator didn't want me to. But yesterday I had enough and banned her.

The problem here though, is that several guys on this site have been interested or in a semi-relationship with her already. And she is bouncing around. This is overall bad. VERY VERY BAD. A female can cause a rift between a bunch of guys very quickly. And if that guy is emotionally involved with her (even more so sexually) then he'll be 10x more likely to side with her case. Case in point, one member who is the guy currently involved with her, at the hip, made a post today about me being an +++++++.

I decided to finally ban this chick after some of the female members started to complain about her, her drama just keeps spreading.

Then today I get this PM from her:

Oh please, just go the frack away you lil drama queen.

See, I want to get rid of her, becuase I know that a girl can get people going in different directions really fast. And it's already starting to happen.

I can't curb it any further. She didn't break any rules, but I do have these few clauses in my forum rules:






Anyone ever have this happen to them?

Been there done that, A very long time ago (ubb board)we had a kick butt hunting board, 4000+ members 100-150 online at all times, it was great, the guy who owned it didn't have time to play with boards so he asked me to help. I figured no problem.

well one of them women(big church freak) in the forum wasn't who she said she really was nor was she married like she said she really was. about 20 of us decided to meet in vegas one year. I was taking my wife and others took there wives,(comeing from all over the USA) about 2 weeks before the meet, I am in chat and this lady asks me how well I know a certain person in the same state I am in. I said very very well he is a very good friend, then she goes on that her husband said it was ok for her to go with him as he had to work, I am thinking ok a little wierd but ok. She had flaunted picture of herself for years on the forum anyhow and she was pretty hot, ok not pretty hot but playboy hot... I am thinking her unlucky husband butt my lucky friend.

My wife and I decided to stay in Laughin for a few days then head to vegas for the dinner.

we arrive in vegas and are chatting with some friends, about an hour or so later my friend shows up with a women. now everyone knows how hot she was but it seems she wasn't the same after all. she had put on about 200lbs and about 25 years. We had a nice dinner and instantly figured out this chick was a physco.

she looked a little nervous so when my buddy left her to go get drives I asked her if everything was ok, she said everything was great.
we hung around for a while and decided to stay that night then head back to laughlin.

when we all arrived back to our own homes we all posted pics of the group (OMG never do that), everyone said they had a good time. about 3 months later I start hearing rumors of my friend supposibly raping this women both at his home and in vegas.
I asked her one day in live chat if she had any problems and she said no. so I ignored it. then some of our members just started not showing up anymore. about 6 months into this I drop into live chat like always and it was full of people, she was in there with 4-5 other women and about 8 guys . The room goes silent everyone leaves but one women I knew pretty good. Then it all came out. why did I let my friend rape her, why did I not doing anything etc. I was dumbfounded as so was my wife.
Of cource live chat tends to spill to chat so I had a huge mess to clean up. the owner of the board was pissed at me now and I couldnt figure out why as we were good friends)
so now this forum is running at about 25% if that, so I started doing a little snooping. and found out alot of interesting stuff. Like She wasnt married to this guy, she didnt even tell the guy she went to vegas, she was sleeping with my buddy and the list goes on.

now 7-8 months into this thing I am getting death threats, I am being charged with Rape, My wife supposibly held this women down why I did the dirty deed it was just bad. I got calls at home and at work death threat, fake lawyers fake cops and sherriffs fake DA's the whole nine yards. Lost countless friends, not to mention my good friend who I didnt speak to and had a few arguements with over him taking advantage of her.

2 years later someone pms me saying that they meeting her and her husband, I told them to watch out of cource then they heard about everything and I was told off once again.

3 weeks after that I had countless people come back to the board an appologize as they finally figured out everything was a lie and only done for attention. Seems she pulled them same thing on those guys as well, along with the lies about what she looked like and that she was married etc.


the internet is a great place for entertainment, just have fun doing it.
I have met tons of people ,litterally thousands of people from the net. ( My wife ran a irc chat board for down syndrom kids and parents that had kids with disabilities) we used to all get together every 3 months in vegas and laughlin 20-50 at a time from all over the world( before the above story) out of all the people I have met there has only been 3 freaks that you had to get nervous about.
Anymore I just shunn the situation and tell them to get a life, most people realize a pain in the butt when they see them.
I am 44 and don't give a ratts behind what is said on the net, if someone gets nasty with me on one of my boards it dont bother me, I very rarely bann anyone and delete post, I never edit a post unless a extramly bad word is in it.. when people ask why I did this or that the best and most simpliest answer is "Because I can" that all you have to say. if you say anything else they will start to whine and cry foul. with this it ends fast and now.

Running a worldwide or nationwide board is alot easier than running a state only board, I always thought I would be harder but the instate boards everyone wants to one up the next person and there are 500 people that know the other guy . in the world wide boards they can one up all they want and wont likely be called out.

I feel your pain, it will go away after a few months, good luck and thank the world wide web for the internet kooks as they are the best entertainment in the world.


Shelly I love the term "Scene whores"
PennylessZ28 you ahve a way with words I like that.
Delw