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Originally Posted by PennylessZ28

No laides, I said an attractive women, who is seeking nothing but attention is trouble to a group of men.

It's my belief that any women who doesn't have female friends, and can only get along with men, does so becuase she can only get along by flirting with men. These women are trouble and trouble and drama follows them, and they wonder why.

This girl was using my shoutbox as her personal attention center, to boost self esteem and looking for love on my website.

Not a good idea. And when I'd tell my friend about my thoughts, after he'd complain, he'd turn around and tell her I'm talking trash. (DUMB ASS) Then she'd PM other members going, she can't come to the meets cause certain people think things about her, and she'd get mad. Again, see where I'm going with this. Around and Around.

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LMAO.

OK a few things to correct here. ANY Person, despite their attractiveness to certain types of people (because beauty is in the eye of the beholder) that is only looking for attention is trouble for any type of group. I agree.

But....

I personally don't really have any real friends that are women. And I have been told by men that I'm not bad on the eyes. So, you keep generalizing things as though attracive women who don't like to hang out with other women are problems.

It's my belief that any women who doesn't have female friends, and can only get along with men, does so becuase she can only get along by flirting with men.

um.... nope, I don't have a whole lot of female friends because

*I'm not into spending all my money (or my man's money) on crap that I just don't need only because I'm in competition with the other women in the world.

*Most of them are not interested in the same things I am interested in... i.e.... hunting, fishing, camping, racing, and other "guy" type things.

*Most of them would somehow somewhere find a way to either make me think she can get my man away from me or actually attempt it and I'm sorry I really dont' want to go to jail over breaking some stupid female's nose and saying to her .........feeling pretty now?

Anyway, yes I do get your point, yes I do feel she should be banned, and your friend is an idiot but then again most men are when a pretty thing walks through the door or is online and knows how to get into their pants.....er... um......... I mean head..... well, then again.... brain I guess would be what we are trying for here. (did I just generalize on men's behavior? oops)

So, I'd love to join car forums but unless I pretend to be either a helpless female, a flirt, or lie and say I'm a guy, I don't think many females would be welcome on most "guy" type forums anyway. (dang it, I just generalized again)

I've attempted to join some of the forums that have interests that I have but the guys usually are not too friendly if you can correct something they have stated, dang egos. (wow, it really is hard not to point the finger and generalize isn't it.)

If they are trouble, ban them and anyone who can't let the issue that started the problems go, ban them too or at least put them in a restricted use state.

There are alot of us out there despite what our gender happens to be that just don't necessarily get along with the same gender or haven't found the friends of the same gender that like the same things.

This isn't a gender issue but I just had to throw all that in because sometimes we get caught up in that type of stuff instead of looking at a situation instead of the actual gender or dare I say it.... yes race of a person. Then we start spouting off and use those identifiers as generalizations that make it sound like all people with those identifiers are like that.

And there my friends is how stereotypes are born.

All in all, it's YOUR board, kick who ever you want off of it and if one of your "staff" doesn't like it, then explain to them it's YOUR board and they are welcome to stay with that understanding. And then remind them of your TOS.