You seem to be confusing internal and external paths. On a linux machine the complete internal path will start with a /. On Windows it will start with a drive letter, such as c:\
You must provide the internal path from the root of the drive to get the script to work. For example
/var/www/sites/pinkowitz.org/subdomains/www/ for Joomla and
/var/www/sites/pinkowitz.org/subdomains/forum/ for vbulletin, and so on.
One way to discover the path is to create a new php file in your forum with this code
PHP Code:
<?php echo dirname(__FILE__); ?>
Visit the file in your browser and copy whatever appears to the vJoomla installer.