ok, i think i got it
Here its what I did...
1st of all.. I deleted the bridge plugin from my plugin folder, so that way I gain access to my admin area again
Once I was logged in, I upload the bridge plugin again and then I mapped the admins in both systems (I was sure that I didnt have the same username as admin on my 2 programs).
Once I mapped this users then I sign off from my admin and I login on my main forums page as admin and once I was inside my forums, I was able to gain access to my wp-admin
Sorry for the confussion but I didnt know exactly how this worked, it seems to me like a great plugin
Jesus