this is the code that goes into the navbar, there is no way that the page should open in a new window, it is set to open i nsame window, as are all the rest of the navbar links, please post oyur code you have in your navbar please. maybe you changed the code around a little?
HTML Code:
<td class="vbmenu_control"><a href="member.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$bbuserinfo[userid]">$vbphrase[my_profile]</a></td>
and as for the PM thing, I will look into that as soon as I can get my localhost, or get a webhost

sorry for the inconvenience!