Found it!
Here is the easiest way to move the shoutbox. Use peterska2's tutorial on making custom templates via plugins, see
here. By using the stand template name, or you can change it I suppose, $forumhome_vbshout , you can then keep all templates unfooled around with

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Easy!
Again, I am sure most of you coders know how to do this easily, but I didn't and I asked for help and no one could give me an honest answer. But I figured it out eventually, after my board crashing...twice XD. So yeah, criticism or comments or whatever is welcome