[Eriond]

it wont help in your case but to help forestall these problems for new sites having a policy like I used to have on IRC would be good. "Dont ask to be staff we will contact you"

Although it might cause problems later on, you could always try the "we dont have the requirement for new staff just yet, we will put you forward for concideration when the need arises" might be a way to calm her down.

I hooked up with a girl from my site a few months ago and during our relationship and now since she finished it she was asking for special concideration, not in a nasty or disruptive way, thankfully, but i always said no chance whenever she asked. My site has 2 groups that i want to get going in competitions etc and I did announce that members of my specific group could request a custom user title mine was Deamon of Darkness and she wanted Deamoness of Darkness, when she finished it she went ranking on telling me to take the title away but when i did she went into one on msn about me abusing my admin position etc, i told her straight with no pulling of punches that it was at her request that i removed it and it was in no way an abuse of power. She has now calmed down and comtinues to post so at least i have not lost a member (i have few active members at the mo so every post helps )