Seperate table per post
 

Does anyone know how to do this? like have the post all have theyre seperate table with a space between em?

and i know wich templates to edit, but just not how to edit them the right way...

Each post is a separate table already. All you need to do is just put a <BR> tag at the end of the table.

wont that create a gap with the color of the bordeR?

No. In your forumhome_forumbit_level2_nopost (I think it's this one anyway...) you put a <br> tag at the very end. I believe this is what you're trying to do anyway. ;)