change navbar text color
 

<a href="http://ball2live.com/index.php?styleid=31" target="_blank">http://ball2live.com/index.php?styleid=31</a>
how do i do it for this skin ive tried everything .

If you've tried everything, then it's kinda hard for us to suggest anything. :)

According to your page source, it is class nvlink. Have you tried changing the css for that class?

Where would I edit this at sorry im not the best with vbulletin .

I would guess in your Main CSS page for your style. If not there, you really should go ask the person who made the style for you and they should know.

Color text in navbar template example menu Text :Arcade:
Before
<td class="vbmenu_control"><a href="arcade.php?$session[sessionurl_q]">Arcade</a></td>
for red text change to:
<td class="vbmenu_control"><a href="arcade.php?$session[sessionurl_q]"><font color="#FF0000">Arcade</font></a></td>

Do not use font tags as the tag is deprecated - use css.
CSS Text Properties

use this

.nvlink a:link {
color: #000000;/* add your own color here*/
text-decoration: none;
}
.nvlink a:visited {
color: #000000;/* add your own color here*/
text-decoration: underline;
}
.nvlink a:hover{
color: #000000;/* add your own color here*/
text-decoration: none;
}
.nvlink a:active {
color: #000000;/* add your own color here*/
text-decoration: none;
}