where can i get this
 

look here http://forum.esoft.in/ hover over the forum description i need that gold sparkle effect and the skin if possable thx in advance to all if any reply

It looks like it's a hover affect:
a:hover, a:active
{
background: url(http://i250.photobucket.com/albums/gg263/Street4004/linkback.gif) repeat-x;
color: #FF9900;
}

it does look like what im looking for but does anyone know how to install it so it goes on the text i know you gave me the code but where do i put this thx for anybodys help

AdminCP > Styles & Template > Style Manager > Main CSS > Additional CSS Definitions

Also, I'd suggest hosting the image on your own site instead of on photobucket.

doesnt work for me, dont get the sarkle effect just the link color changes!

Exactly what are you putting in the CSS? And do you have a test page we can see where you are trying to add this effect?