Sex forums and age of members? (Opinions)
 

How serious should I take 14-17 yr olds (male and female members) participating in our Sex forum ? We dont get raunchy (no porn pics or anything like that unless its a nude cartoon funny from ilovebacon, etc) but I was just curious how you all handle it?

G'day Julie long time no chat (what's the smilie count now, we just went through 220)...

Introduced a sex forum on a trial basis and it appears to be operating okay. The forum moderator does check the forum regularly however to ensure subjects best left unasked are not included, there's some sick sad people out there.

Generally your members will be able to keep the 14-17 yo crowd in line and are pretty quick on the report button. So far so good, most people seem to be handling it in an adult fashion and there's some good debates going on.

They all like a little innuendo, though. :D

I am 20.. and I have had more sex than I needed... but lets say I was 16 and had the same amount? Then I guess I would know the exact same amount as a 20 year old would..

If they know and have experienced it before then I guess they can be taken seriously.. but if not then they are just playing off TV and watching their mommy and the pool guy.

it depends on the maturity of your members, we've had the S&R forum on ebs since the beginning back on ezboard and it started ok but we did has a stage where kids signed up hoping for porn and in their discontent abused it, it's been quite successful but that's down to the nature of the conversation there and altho some of it can be highly sexual, i've found that users from the ages of 14 up tend to post their dilemmas and ask for help, if you don't alienate em and make em feel welcome then it's a good feature for all users

Oh god we are up to like 500 now :surprised: You should check them out, some of them are too funny :p

Yes dont we all :p

The pool guy? :paranoid: lmao!

Cool I will remember that :cool: thank you

You see we dont censor anything on our site, so far its been alright :paranoid: We've just had a streak of new members lately in the age range of 14-17 and this came to mind, just gotta cover my butt lol :D

well, i won't take em tooo serious, but also not treaten em as small kids.

They could have had more sex than a 25 old have had, but also the older are more raisonable, and more serious.
Younger one often can't learn as good from experiences as older ones do, if it's a sexual experience or not isn't the point here..

Bellies and Babies possibly has the longest forumhome I have ever seen. :D

All I can think of when I hear a sex forum for 14-17 year olds, is that it probably needs to be moderated very carefully.

Yeah I think I was thinking more along the lines of a legal standpoint, you know, how not to get my butt in trouble lol. So far its ok, its just kinda wierd seeing 14 yr olds in there talking about their *experiences* :paranoid:

Yes its quite large isnt it? :paranoid: I'm still figuring out how to shorten it up and avoid confusing people. Last time I did that, it was awesome and loaded fast, except all of the "Message Board Dummies" couldnt find the forums, go figure ....So I had to put it back :confused:

I only wish the pool guy would visit me :'(

Well in the UK you have to be 16 to have sex... i can't see the harm in talking about it really...

It's true there are 14-17 year old boys having sex these days... so i'd accept it as long as it's talked about in a mature way (if that's possible from a 14 year old boy pumping with testosterone :p) hehe

- miSt

It's kind of sick though...

Lol - did i say it wasn't ...

@Julie: What's you country for law questions?
Here in german, also 14 year olds are allowed to have sex and talk about, just for pictures they have to be 16 ^^

Normally you shouldn't get any problems, but i don't know your laws ;)

I'm not sure lol I'm assuming since you have to be 18 to enter a porn site, then perhaps the same rules appy? :confused:

:p

Sex? Isn't that the number right after 5 and before 7?

Yes Boofo, it is ;)...everytime you have 6, you're at risk of having another child :eek:

I guess I'm going to have to stop counting at 5 from now on. Maybe I counted to 10 twice and that is why we had twins? Coincidence? I think not!

But atleast we now know what Xenon does in his spear time.

LOL!!!

Xenon's spends his spear time spearing...

*ggg*

But when do i have spear time? ^^

lmao :p

Xenon: Here in german, also 14 year olds are allowed to have sex and talk about, just for pictures they have to be 16 ^^


now take a close look at the little things of happiness (the ^^)

Can we change his username to Vlad the Impaler ....

We have the same law regarding when you can have sex down here, but figure what the heck it's an important part of life and if people can pass on tips all the better. Now there's some real weird stuff l didn't know being talked about....

Good idea to add an Anon member so people don't have to id themselves if slightly uncomfortable with asking questions btw...

And l had never heard of Sh!, which has to be the most rocking sex shop in the world. Run by Women for Women, males allowed if accompanied by a mature female ... the gals running the place rock!

Off topic once again: Vlad the Impaler is the original vampire.. but I am sure his real name will tip you off "Vlad Dracule"

sounds like (DRA-COOL)

than a store writer changed it to Dracula

sounds like (DRA-QUE-LA)

Hey, who has allowed you to talk about my Family??? ^^

yeah but rather them in there getting help at any dilemmas they run into and having support, than getting scared and not being able to deal with the consequenses of their actions and making a mess

e.g one of our users had the condom burst so came online to try and find out about the Morning After Pill, how good it is, etc, etc.

Granted he was 17 but that's all i could think of at such short notice lol

HAHAHA I am a ex- :pirate:

yeah, an ex-living-:pirate: soon ^^