Here is a template mod I did for this so you can access it easier for each user.

did this ever get optimised?

nope

it's a shame, would've been a nice thing to have.

yeah sure wound

One of my members has added EVERY other member as a friend. 400+ users at present, so it would have taken him a while. What an idiot. Our site is for business professionals, so what he has done looks particularly ridiculous.

Where do I go/what do I do to delete all his linked "friends"?

You'll have to clear his buddy list with an SQL statement.

update usertextfield set buddylist="" where userid=HIS_USERID_HERE;

Thank you VERY much! Worked like a charm. Really appreciated.

Well I installed this but I found a bug! Yeah! I actually did something here!

well if there is no users in your (top) Friends % Mutual list the tables messes up. The HTML isnt what I am used to so I have no idea how to fix that.

in other words is linked to and is linked from get fat and just ruin the look.

file attached. any help in this area would be nice.

Sorry I can't see the problem with the HTML here, maybe it's something obvious but what's wrong in the screenshot?

Thanks,

John.
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