| Dean C |
02-24-2009 09:49 PM |
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Originally Posted by Ziki
(Post 1749254)
Well you expressed the other end of the line (a bit extreme situation) but pretty much yes,call it shock therapy or whatever else but I mean what else can you do?
You can't be too conservative or else they will try to figure out themselves and it will end up in the situation you mentioned.Saying "Sex is bad." is the worst thing to do.
Being to liberal will make them too fine about it and would end up in the same situation.
Staying balanced between those too would be awesome but in the end they will find such friends no matter what you do,so it's the same again.
But they will grow out of that soon.If not,you got a problem.
I mean,we all've been teenagers and we had our ups and downs.We all have been once in a bad "society" but we all grown out of that.
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To add another side to that story, I was raised very conservatively, as you put it. I was kept away from bad people when I was younger. And when I met these kinds of folks when I was older, I instinctively kept away from them. There are several ways to skin a cat, just like there are several ways to raise a child. There's far more to it than isolating them from danger ofc :) |
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