So do I, but that might not happen for a while. He's still in school, I think.

School? I left school over a year ago :p

Updated the zip file, if you've installed just re-upload everything within the UPLOAD/ folder, should be fine then. I've added in a bit of code to override the datamanager, instead of using the default set_recipients() function, i've forced the data into the variables, so no matter the permissions the users will recieve the PM, however those with it disabled won't be able to see the private message until they re-enable it.

- Zero Tolerance

That's not nice, it should take care of the Users decision IMHO.

Perhaps, but they won't be able to see the PM while they retain the decision to have private messaging turned off, so i doubt it makes much difference.

- Zero Tolerance

If they can't see the message til they re-enable it, the message would be better off not being there, right? It could be a few months before they re-enable it. I would think a setting to bypass their setting and send them the pm anyway, or not bypass it and not send it at all. That way you have it covered all the way around. ;)

And sorry about the school remark, I thought you were still in school with your age. ;)

Fair point, but in others prefered the old one where it forced the PM to be sent, so I thought it'd be best to keep it that way.

Oh, and here in england, we finish school when we're 16.

- Zero Tolerance

That's on of the reasons why I had to code my own Version for 3.0 ;)

Btw:
I'd change that to only userid and username - the 3.0 Version caused serious memory exhausted errors on my server because of this.

But if it is a vital pm that you need the member to get, they would miss it by having pms turned off. An Admin settable option for that would solve it for both cases.

How many years of school do you guys go for over there? We have 13 here. Kindergarten (from which I will be graduating soon) and grades 1-12.

Hurry up Boofo, my daughter is hitting the school next year, she will be graduated before you !!!!!
and for your question, here in Qu?bec, we have 4 levels...
pre-primary: 1 year (5 years old)
primary: 1-6
secondary: 1-5
cegep/college: 1-3
university (who goes there anyway!)...

any idea why it would not worrk for Gold?

installed it..but NO option for PM in admincp

edit
its showing today..hehe...dont know why it did not yesterday...despite all the refresh i did
working fine thank you