after clicking the link i saw this message after about 10 seconds.

*Website Transfer In Progress*

Please be patient while we transfer our website over to our new hosting provider. This move will deliver improved performance and response times for the website.

For immediate assistance please contact a leader from our BattleLog Platoon.

Expected downtime maximum is 72 hours.

Shared hosting? What was the server load showing in adminCP?

strange...

Now your site is no longer there, the default site is shown very fast.
So i think it might have something to do with your site content / plugins.

Nah, the domain is parked. This can happen when someone is changing hosts. The script you're seeing loads really fast because there's nothing in it.

I bet the OP is changing hosts.

By the looks, your tag cloud is causing quite a ridiculous delay- remove it:

URL: http://anzbf3.com/css.php?styleid=3&...&td=ltr&sheet=sidebar.css,widgets.css,tagcloud.css
Host: anzbf3.com
IP: 208.117.32.40
Location: Chicago, IL
Error/Status Code: 200
Start Offset: 59.171 s
Initial Connection: 262 ms
Time to First Byte: 35108 ms
Content Download: 47 ms
Bytes In (downloaded): 5.7 KB
Bytes Out (uploaded): 0.4 KB

Apparently, whatever customizations you added to your additional .css file is causing major issues as well:

URL: http://anzbf3.com/css.php?styleid=3&...&td=ltr&sheet=additional.css
Host: anzbf3.com
IP: 208.117.32.40
Location: Chicago, IL
Error/Status Code: 200
Start Offset: 59.471 s
DNS Lookup: 50 ms
Initial Connection: 262 ms
Time to First Byte: 34800 ms
Content Download: 0 ms
Bytes In (downloaded): 0.5 KB
Bytes Out (uploaded): 0.3 KB


It appears to be your vb skin that is the issue, switch back to default and run the same webspeed test to see if you have the same issues- the load time is fixed:

http://www.webpagetest.org/result/121113_NB_CN2/

Tweak your theme and clean it up.

Terribly slow website