oh pls cmon :D did I bump this thread 3 times in one afternoon??? some of you probably understand why I am on a little rant now... and im not gonna miss this forum as a source for help, even tho its the official forum... :P :)
got a guy from china via GAF that already did awesome work for me, he told me he can fix my problem.... will check out what he says before I "probably" waste time on this board again :/ still cant understand why people dont want to make money (help for free on something little like this). if somebody encounters the same problem one day and stumbles over this thread, feel free to send me a PM if you want to know how this story went out for me :)

alright I think I found a solution and want to share it here with anybody that wants to do the same someday:

http://www.vbulletin-germany.org/showthread.php?t=5827