ok i got it to work with the space...
but when the user adds their websites...
its multiple line, so they dont put a space between, they push enter to go down to the next line, should i have them seperate using a space or is there another way to get around this?

You should ask them to do it using whatever method is easiest for you to deal with. I like commas, but I supposed you can do line breaks (google the code to use for $find if you want to use line breaks - maybe chr(11) ?).

Thanks for your help Lynne! I just decided to have members separate with a space... shouldn't be hard for them to understand.