I've heard great success stories about sites that have really benefited from vbseo. I was one of them that didn't really benefit so much. Parenting sites have a lot of competition, so it can be very hard to get started. You have a lot of big competition such as ivillage, babycenter, babyzone, pregnancy weekly, mothering.com, etc then you also have a TON of smaller boards popping up by the hundreds each day. So, it will be hard to break into, BUT I think if you stick with it and just continue with keeping conversation active, making the boards seem busy, making sure there are content rich articles/posts, your site will eventually grow.

Well .. what i think ... its better to take out some time and work on forums ... make some users ... and make post ... just make the forum look busy ... have links and links in the forums .... once u will have about 10k post ... then go for vbseo or u will find many other like http://zoints.com/ which is free !!

Free? Yes. Supported? No.

OK
where do i start

firstly....
Your skin, get a new one... or fix it up.
a christmas skin isnt going to go well all year round, mainly in the december time.

secondly
on your vbadvanced home page, you have ALOT links in the left hand collumn.
Remove All of them and put key category ones there.
i think you have all your forums linked on it.

finally
Remove some of your forums that are irrellevant to your topic.
e.g. What About the Pets! All About Food .
Your aim is a little to broad, are you a baby site or just a place for parents?
its hard to tell.

This isn't a review forum 0tolerance.