how to check on database, on what table to look

You'd look at your template table.

Did you look at your error_logs?

i empty the error_logs and then create new template, error_log its still empty
i looked on table template and i see it the new created template, and those i create before, so if i want to edit them i must edit via phpmyadmin, couse i dont see them on vbulletin admincp :(

Something is wrong on your site if it will not give you the full list of templates. Do you have any modifications? Try disabling them.

i put define('DISABLE_HOOKS', true); in config.php to disable all plugins
and take a look on the template i still didnt see the custom templates :( ahhh

If you have ticket support, I would suggest putting in a ticket.

no i dont have :(

bump, still no sollytion if i wanna to edit the template i need to edit via database directly

thanks for this, this is what i want to :D

--------------- Added [DATE]1327200411[/DATE] at [TIME]1327200411[/TIME] ---------------

ok now i have a question. i your attachment look like this

https://vborg.vbsupport.ru/external/2012/01/33.png

but what i gonna do this.. it looks like this

https://vborg.vbsupport.ru/external/2012/01/34.png

how can i fixed?

Read and implement the article for the vB version you are running. This is for vB3, you're clearly running vB4.