Ok i think ive narrowed it down, its somewhere in this code but where exactly do i do the edting ( as you can see im not too experienced):
<!-- user info -->
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="$stylevar[cellpadding]" border="0" width="100%">
<tr>
<if condition="$show['avatar']"><td class="alt1"><a href="member.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$post[userid]"><img src="$avatarurl" alt="<phrase 1="$post[username]">$vbphrase[xs_avatar]</phrase>" border="0" /></a></td></if>
<td nowrap="nowrap">
<div id="postmenu_$post[postid]">
<if condition="$show['profile']">
<a style="font-size:14pt" href="member.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$post[userid]">$post[musername]</a>
$post[onlinestatus]
<script type="text/javascript"> vbmenu_register("postmenu_$post[postid]", true); </script>
<else />
$post[musername]
</if>
</div>
<if condition="$post['usertitle']"><div class="smallfont">$post[usertitle]</div></if>
<if condition="$post['rank']"><div class="smallfont">$post[rank]</div></if>
</td>
<td width="100%"> </td>
<td valign="top" nowrap="nowrap">
<div class="smallfont">
<if condition="$post['joindate']"><div>$vbphrase[join_date]: $post[joindate]</div></if>
<if condition="$post['age']"><div>$vbphrase[age]: $post[age]</div></if>
<div>
$vbphrase[posts]: $post[posts]
<if condition="$show['reputation']">$post[reputationdisplay]</if>
</div>
<div>$post[icqicon] $post[aimicon] $post[msnicon] $post[yahooicon]</div>
</div>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
<!-- / user info -->