ok, I found the template... this is what it has in it:
<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/REC-html40/loose.dtd">
<HTML>
<HEAD><TITLE>$bbtitle - Private Messaging: $username</title>
$cssinclude
</head>
<body bgcolor="#7d7092" text="#000000" id=all leftmargin="10" topmargin="10" marginwidth="10" marginheight="10" link="#000000" vlink="#000000" alink="#000000">
$header
<table border="0" width="100%"><tr>
<td valign="top" align="left"><a href="index.php"><img src="$titleimage" border="0"></a></td>
<td valign="middle" align="center" nowrap>
$fivelinks
<P><A HREF="private.php?action=newmessage&password=$password&reply=false"><FONT face="verdana, arial, helvetica" size="2" class="thtcolor">[Send A Private Message]</font></A><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" ><BR>
<a href="private.php?action=editignore&password=$password">[ Edit Ignore List ]</a><BR>
<a href="private.php?action=editfolders&password=$password">[ Edit Folders ]</a><BR></font><FONT face="verdana, arial, helvetica" size="2" ><FORM action="private.php" METHOD="POST">
Jump To: <SELECT name="thefolder"><OPTION value="-1">Sent Items</OPTION>
<OPTION value="0">Inbox</OPTION>$folderjump</SELECT><INPUT type="hidden" name="action" value="getmsgs"><INPUT type="hidden" name="password" value="$password"> <INPUT type="Submit" name="submit" value="Go!"></FORM></font></td>
</tr></table>
<table border="0" width="100%" cellpadding="2">
<tr><td width="60%">
<FONT face="verdana, arial, helvetica" size="2" ><b><a href="index.php">$bbtitle</A> <FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" ><b>></b></font> <a href="private.php">Private Messages</a> <BR>$username > $foldername</b></font></td>
<FORM action="private.php" METHOD="POST"><INPUT type="hidden" name="action" value="domove"><INPUT type="hidden" name="table" value="$table"><INPUT type="hidden" name="password" value="$password">
<td><FONT face="verdana, arial, helvetica" size="2" ><INPUT type="submit" name="submit" value="Delete"> or <SELECT name="thefolder">
<OPTION value="0">Inbox</option>$folderjump</SELECT> <INPUT type="Submit" name="submit" value="Move"></font></td>
</tr>
</table>
<table border=0 cellpadding=4 border=0 cellspacing=1 width="100%">
<tr bgcolor="#FFFFFF">
<td colspan=3>
<table width="100%" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0">
<tr>
<td><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >?</font></td>
<td width="100%" align="center">
<FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" color="#afa3c5"><B>Message Title</B></font></td>
</tr></table></td>
<td align=center nowrap><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" color="#afa3c5"><B>$sender</B></font></td>
<td align=center nowrap>
<FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" color="#afa3c5"><B>Date/Time Sent</B></font></td>
<td align=center nowrap>
<FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" color="#afa3c5">?</font></td>
</tr>
$privmsgsbit
</form>
<TR bgcolor="#FFFFFF">
<TD valign="middle" width="100%" colspan="7">
<table width="100%" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0">
<tr>
<td valign="middle"><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >?</font></td>
<td width="100%" valign="middle" align="right">
<FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" color="#afa3c5"><b>
All times are $timezone. All dates are in Month-Day-Year format.</b></font></td>
</tr></table>
</table>
<table border="0" width="100%" cellpadding="2">
<tr>
<td width=30% valign="top"><A HREF="private.php?action=newmessage&password=$password&reply=false"><FONT face="verdana, arial, helvetica" size="2" class="thtcolor">[Send A Private Message]</font></a></td>
<td width="70%" valign="top">$forumjump</td>
</tr></table>
<center><table border=0><tr>
<td><img src="$pmnewfolder" border=0 alt="New Message"></td>
<td><b><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >New Message</font></b></td>
<td><img src="$pmfolder" border=0 alt="Old Message"></td>
<td><b><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >Old Message</font></b></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><img src="$pmnewfolderrt" border=0 alt="New Replied To Message"></td>
<td><b><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >New Replied To Message</font></b></td>
<td><img src="$pmfolderrt" border=0 alt="Old Replied To Message"></td>
<td><b><FONT face="verdana,arial,helvetica" size="1" >Old Replied To Message</font></b></td>
</tr>
</table></center>
$footer
</body>
</html>
what should I do with it?