private messages approval system ?

[Essam]

is there a plugins or product / hack that can do pm moderating ?

so before sending it directly to other users admins should check if there are any spams of invitation to other forums ..

[toonysnn]

What you could do is disable pms for one group, allow users to post around a little bit (moderate their posts for like a week) then have an auto promotion after x amount of time, and y amount of posts. (where they can then PM and other things you'd like them to do.)

[Essam]

is not that i didn't do that , but the problem with mods and special users
i have security issue with some moderators sending spam to vip and special users , i wont relieve them from their authority just for speculation

so i believe " pm tapping/moderation " is the best solution

[yahoooh]

i think if there are report pm it will be nice addition as default of vbulletin

[Essam]

reporting pm is available in v3.8b

the problem not so many users have the courage or willing to report mods about bad behavior or rules violation