Show different style for usercp

[moondragon13]

I know you can set a different style for each of the forums, how could I do this for all the User CP area?

I have a tab system on my site with: 'Forum | Photos | My site'

I want the My Site tab to be highlighted when they visit their User CP since it will have other management options for the site. Any suggestions how to go about doing this?

[Dismounted]

Is this all using the vBulletin backend?

[moondragon13]

The site is very integrated with vB but not all my pages fall under the vb forum directory. I envision someone going to /mysite.php and that tab is highlighted, there they will see links to update their photos, ads etc and a link to update profile and forum options. When they click that link the Forum tab right now gets activated because it is under the forum area and I want to keep the other tab highlighted.